An Interview with Dr. Judith
Broder, MD, Founder of The Soldiers Project
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The Soldiers Project offers free and confidential psychological counseling to any member of the military deployed or returned from Iraq (OIF) or Afghanistan (OEF). Services are open also to extended family members, and to loved ones of soldiers who gave the ultimate sacrifice.
This edited transcript is an
excerpt from an interview with Judith Broder by Sam Coleman at Dr. Broder's
office on October 18, 2007.
Judith Broder, M.D., originator
and Director of The Soldiers Project,
is a psychiatrist and psychoanalyst who has a private practice in Studio
City. She is a Training and
Supervising Analyst at LAISPS(Los Angeles Institute and Society for Psychoanalytic
Studies) which sponsors The Soldiers Project through their Ernest Lawrence Trauma Center. More information on the Soldiers
Project is available at their web site, www.thesoldiersproject.org
SC How were you originally called to the field of psychiatry?
JB That goes way back!
I decided, I think, when I was thirteen years old to be a
psychiatrist. I read a book by
Frieda Fromm-Reichmann and I thought she was a real hero to be able to work
with such seriously disturbed people, to hang in there and be with them. My Dad was a GP, and he raised us to be
independent people. He was
probably one of the first feminists!
He told all of us, "I don't care what you do, but first you have to have
a profession. And then you can do
anything else." I actually went to
medical school to become a psychiatrist.
SC As opposed to choosing the specialty once you were in
medical school.
JB Right, or as opposed to psychology. I might have chosen psychology if my
father weren't an MD. It was
always about being interested in the inner workings of people's minds, how they
lived their lives, how they were affected by their upbringings, and the ways in
which a psychiatrist could help, by talking to people-because in those days
psychiatrists actually talked to people. It was a completely different
profession. I went to a great
medical school, the University of Chicago, and then I did my residency here at
County Hospital. Which was
phenomenal because we were very much out in the trenches, and we had as
supervisors people who were psychoanalysts, so that's how I came to be a
psychoanalyst. Frieda
Fromm-Reichmann was a psychoanalyst, so many years later I was still right on
track!
SC Could you
say something about the history of the Soldiers Project?
JB I conceived of this over two years ago when we had our
first meeting. It was a kind of initial planning meeting. I began holding seminars about two and
a half years ago, and collecting books to read. began reading. That put us in a different mindset.
SC I noticed from your web site that the Soldiers Project is in
fact an outgrowth of the LA Institute for Psychoanalytic Studies. Do psychodynamic approaches inform the
work you are doing with vets?
JB Always. It's certainly not the case that the soldiers and their
families are being treated with psychoanalysis, but it is one of the very
basics of our ways of understanding the complex issues. It's the trauma in the context of what
pre-existed, and it has taught all of us a way to sit with someone and be
patient, to learn from what the person
has to say, and not apply some protocol.
SC I would imagine you would learn about, for example, what
coping skills they have had in the past, what has made them vulnerable, and
what would make them strong.
JB Exactly.
SC But how do you get these guys to open up?
JB It turns out that we can, in our experience. It's really easy. It isn't hard. The essence of it is, ‘I want to hear
your story. Tell me about
you. I don't know you or what you
go through. Tell me about
it.' There are guys who have been
dragged in--virtually screaming--by their wives, who are often the ones who call us. When they get in the office and see
that the person is not like the other people they've come into contact with
who've been quote---"helpers"-- within the military and VA, they just open
up. In fact someone was telling me
this yesterday about a soldier who came in, sat down, and just began to
cry. So it's much easier than we
ever expected it to be, and it's actually much less frightening than people
would expect it to be.
SC Do you get vets demanding a higher level of secrecy, that
is, being assured that no one is knowing that they are seeking the help?
JB That's why they call us and not to the VA, because we spend
a lot of time out in the community proving who we are, and making it clear that
we're completely separate from any bureaucracy. We see people in our own offices, and so right away the setting is
confidential. They don't meet
other people sitting in the waiting room or anywhere. And we make it clear that the relationship is confidential,
aside from what our license would require, which is reporting someone who's
homicidal or suicidal, of course.
We'd have no recourse. We
have had instances where guys don't want to be redeployed, and they've asked us
to write letters and be advocates.
There the confidentiality is broken with their permission. Some of our therapists have taken on
that role as advocates on a professional level, writing a letter describing
what they observed, but they know it will be used for the purpose of not being deployed because they have
PTSD and are really not fit.
SC In terms of outreach, I'd imagine that much of the
participation results from the network of people who have experienced it, contacting
other people who then come in. The
web page and brochure appear to have a broad appeal also.
JB We wanted to cast as wide a net as we could, and make sure
to capture all the people that get turned down everywhere else for whatever
reason.
SC And as part of that net, letting people associated with that
vet know who you are and what you do is probably essential, too, because you'll
be calling on them as part of the therapeutic process.
JB. Yes. A lot of
the people we see are the wives or the moms, so our outreach is to go virtually
to anyone who will listen to us.
We go where there are military family support groups, veterans against
the war groups...we show up.
I've shown up at the beach
in Santa Monica, at the Arlington West memorial. They know me now. "Oh, you're that Soldiers Project
lady! I talk to everyone about
you!" When we first went they
looked at us (skeptically) like this:
‘Who are you? An older
white lady who's going to come and help us?' But being there-there's just no short
cut to it.
SC There isn't, is there.
You have to make yourself a known commodity, especially in this age
where everything is just image, or telephone and e-mail. People underestimate the value of
face-to-face contact. I'm sure
that when you establish that contact and then ask, "I really want to hear your
story," they know it's genuine. So
what is the scale of your project now?
JB Here in California the network of providers is
probably close to 120. The
Soldiers' Project in my conception is very complex because it's not just a
referral list. We hold seminars
and peer supervision of people who are doing the therapy. I have that many volunteers,
[but] not that many have attended seminars. All the referrals come through me. I attempt to assign them to people whom I know have some
special sense of what this population is and how you think about them and talk
to them and so on.
SC I would think that selection process is important.
JB It is, because someone who gets turned off is gone. I've learned to tell people who call,
"Y'know, not every first match works,
so if this doesn't, call me back." and I've actually had a couple of
people who called, so they must trust the first encounter with me to know that
they can say that. They say,
"Well, it was too far away," or "It wasn't directive enough" -whatever words
they use.
SC Or the relationship is just not clicking. That must be gratifying to you when
they come back if the relationship doesn't work.
JB It is.
Back to the scale of the project,
there's a group in Chicago and there is a group that has just formed in
Seattle. They're doing it
independently but on our model.
And there is a group that is forming in New York City.
SC Do they ever come by for a little technology transfer?
JB I went to Chicago and that was good. And one of our other people started New
York. The people in Washington
spent a lot of time one the phone with me, and they get what the Soldiers
Project is about.
SC I'm sure they're kindred spirits.
JB One of the wonderful things about the project is I have met
people, sometimes in person, sometimes on the phone, sometimes through the
internet, who are the most dedicated people. It has broadened my experience of the world, and I've been
enriched by others.
SC How has your experience so far been with social workers? Have you found a productive division of
labor between social workers and others?
JB All of our therapists are just therapists. They hold all kinds of
degrees-psychologists, social workers, MFTs. They all have to have licenses and malpractice
insurance. There's no division of
labor.
SC Rethinking my question, I hope it didn't sound like I
expected a hierarchy. I'm still
learning what a social worker is, myself, but I have the sense that one of the
strengths of the field-- not always realized but one of the strengths-is that
social workers blend their knowledge of clinical approaches and interpersonal
skills with an ability to connect to resources on the outside.
JB One of the things that we all discovered is that we all have
become social workers. It's not a
hierarchical division. In the
majority of our cases we are called upon to reach out and use resources beyond
just the talking. That's an
essential part of the training. In
fact a big part of the seminar I'm doing tonight is to discuss the pre-existing
resources in the community that we can use for the people we're seeing. That's unusual for many of us.
Psychoanalysts don't usually do that. By the way the number 120 aren't all psychoanalysts but all
different things. Again, an
outgrowth of our work is that we've become much more versatile in what is
traditionally in the social work way, much less holding back from being
concretely helpful.
SC That's so interesting--could I ask you to elaborate on that
a little more?
JB As psychiatrists, psychologists, analysts, what we're taught
is to understand meaning of things, and then assume that the person will make
use of it in some practical, concrete way. The people that we're seeing in general
need to be heard and meaningful, but they also need direct education, such as
numbers they need to call, or services that are in such-and-such a place. Sometimes, ironically, some of our work
involves getting people back into the VA system where they're really entitled
to care.
SC And you say ‘ironically' because that's what some of them
had rejected in the first place.
JB Exactly.
SC When you rely on other agencies, what do you wish for? -I can imagine one answer would be a
more responsive VA...
JB Yes! That's a
given.
SC But if you had a magic wand. what would those resources look
like?
JB More resources for families! Because one of the limitations of the VA--and because we
have a good relationship with them it's clear to us--is that if the soldier
him- or herself doesn't sign in, the family can't be helped. So the soldier has to identify himself
as the patient, then there will be resources for the family-limited, but
they're there. But if a family
member calls, and says they're in trouble, the VA will say "But I need your
husband's number and he has to be registered here or I can't help you." So there is a great need for family
services of all kinds. There's a
need for counseling services, there's a need for and people who will work with
schools, with kids who are troubled.
SC I would guess, too, that economic counseling and assistance
would be important, too. A lot of
families are strapped, and I'd imagine that any marital relationship would be
terribly strained from that as well.
JB Yes. It is. I
just had an e-mail from a woman in Florida. She said her marriage fell apart and she had three children
and she is struggling. She
said, "I wish there were more of
you," and I said, "Yeah, me too" [laugh].
Economically, the money they get is really not enough.
SC From our discussion of the project, this to me sounds like a
very welcoming environment and type of work for a social worker.
JB Oh yes, absolutely.
SC In terms of becoming involved, what's your message for us
social workers? Perhaps we could
start with the things to study to prepare, things to read, things to expose
ourselves to?
JB I'll just tell you about our own growth process, because you
need to know we all started out knowing nothing, just having good will. None of us were experts. We found books that looked
interesting. Jonathan Shay's book,
and Grossman on killing, we read
Keith Armstrong's book, a kind of handbook that's phenomenal. It has a very large section on
resources that can't be beat. It's
not new anymore but it has resources including web sites. It addresses itself
to soldiers themselves and their families. For wives, it suggests how to be with their man when he
comes home, how to figure out ways talk with him. That's the one practical book that I'd recommend. The others give you a more textured
sense of what war is like and what returning is like. We independently read things reflecting the mindset
experiences of military families, and it made a difference. [SC Note: A list of Dr. Broder's suggested readings appears below.]
SC It's bound to. They live in a different world.
JB Yes. It was
really so for us, most of whom are sort of Beverly Hills, fancy upscale
neighborhoods-
SC [laugh] It makes you feel sheltered!
JB It really really does.
SC It's harder for us to know the
experiences of people in very different circumstances, but as humans we have
that basic human capacity to empathize and to learn. for insight that can reach
across those differences.
JB This is the thing. Everyone told us at the start, "They aren't going to trust
you. They're going to say, ‘What
do you know? You haven't been
there." But I think everyone in
our project has taken the attitude, "You're right. I don't know.
Tell me about it."
SC I wonder how much of that skepticism is a defensive shell.
JB Exactly. The
other thing that I think is extremely important, and I am very sensitive
about-and Jonathan Shay is adamant about this--is that the providers need to
support themselves, because the stories are horrific. They're more than most of us really do want to know
about. So in a way we learn about
it by reading, by seeing The Ground Truth,
seeing plays, and we try to immerse ourselves in it. But when you're in your office and the soldier starts to cry
because of a seemingly innocuous but incredibly painful association with one of
these experiences, you need someone else to help you with it, to process that
to be able to be able to stay with the horror of that. I don't know of any other groups that
recognize this. There are other
groups in the country that have therapists available to help by providing free
treatment and that's great, but I don't knew if there's a deep enough
recognition of how shattering it is if you're really going to listen.
SC And if you're really going to listen, and really be there
with that person, you're going to share that experience with him or her. This is where your own training for
personal emotional hygiene as a therapist will come out in spades! Because if you care you're going to be
vulnerable.
JB Yes. That's
what I knew, that we ourselves would need, and we could help each other. So that ‘s what we do. We have peer supervision groups where
people would talk about what they're struggling with. People in general don't know what soldiers have gone
through, starting with what they are subjected to in their training.
SC There's a misconception, too, that a soldier should be able
to "snap out of it," or "just forget."
I have a pet theory that our human brains have evolved in such a way
that they punish us for getting into life-threatening situations so that we
will avoid them in the future. If
we could "just turn it off" the human race wouldn't survive. So the feelings of stress represent an
adaptive mechanism with survival value, but PTSD represents that mechanism in
overdrive, if you will. It's the
guys who can just turn it off who are the real oddities.
JB They become the Blackwater guys. There are drugs available now that seem
to be able to take the trauma away from the experiences. The consequences are tremendously
ambiguous. I wouldn't want people
to suffer from those experiences, but if they don't process the experience,
what happens to the rest of their lives?
And someone has got to be a witness and say, ‘This is horrendous.' You don't want all memory wiped out so
there is no recognition of what has happened.
SC You've said you are planning a conference on veterans'
psychological needs.
Yes. Our conference is called, "The Hidden Wounds of War-Pathways
to Healing." The dates are May 16
- 18 at the Bonaventure Hotel in Los Angeles. This is our biggest venture, and our hope is that the
conference will act as a catalyst for others to form similar projects in their
local communities. We welcome
donations so that we can provide scholarships for veterans and their families
to attend the conference. [SC
Note: additional information about
donating appears below.]
JB I'd mentioned books by Jonathan Shay and Keith Armstrong.
Both Shay and Armstrong are coming to speak at our conference. We were able to attract these
nationally recognized experts because we started this project a long time
ago! [SC note: the Soldiers
Project web page and SASJ-C web page will provide information on the conference
as it becomes available.]
SC I hope we can help inform everyone about that. Thank you so much for sharing your time
today for this discussion.
--Some Recommended Reading--
Armstrong, Keith. 2006. Courage After Fire:
Coping Strategies for Troops Returning from Iraq and Afghanistan and
Their Families. Berkeley, CA: Ulysses Press.
Grossman, Dave and Loren W. Christensen. 2007. On Combat: The Psychology and Physiology of Deadly
Conflict in War and in Peace (2nd
Edition). Jonesboro, AR: PPCT Research Publications.
Henderson, Kristin. 2006.
While They're at War: The True Story of American Families on the
Homefront. NY: Houghton Mifflin.
Shay, Jonathan. 2003. Odysseus in America: Combat Trauma and the Trials of
Homecoming. NY: Scribner.
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